Regarding your pole on sex positions..  I am one of the 3 percent..

My favorite position..  Its anal with a twist.. She is face down on the bed with her legs closed.. I slip my arms under her arms and hold her wrists under her face.. She can either bite my hands and arms or turn her head and kiss me.. I then gently bite or kiss her neck and shoulders..  When I am done.. I empty my bladder into her..  Then we take a shower together after she emptyâ??s her bowels..  we then cuddle and watch TV until she blows me.. or we fall asleep.. this is considered a quickie for us..